From crocodiles to kangaroos, animals in the wild and in captivity exhibit playful sides. Ravens have been known to slide down snowy rooftops, and elephants at a waterhole enjoy splashing their siblings just for the heck of it. Scientists deduce that all intelligent, social species invent games that take the edge off the struggles of survival.

Humans are no different, but we tend to quell this predisposition after adolescence. Playing tag, riding bikes or running outdoors are childhood pastimes that boosted our developing brains through the release of feel-good endorphins. As adults, we too often chase the dopamine response with shopping, social media, high-risk activities, or food and alcohol consumption.

In the daily blur of work, obligations and challenges, we tend to forget to set aside the seriousness of life and just play. Feeling self-conscious and fearing judgment from others can be our greatest obstacle to feeling free, but fun might be the medicine we need. Chronic stress or trauma reduces our capacity to feel joy. The less we play, the more our nervous-system response remains compromised, keeping us stuck in fight-or-flight mode.

Rolling around the grass with a beloved pet, camping with the grandkids in the living room on a rainy day, bouncing a ball and playing a fun board game are all wonderful ways to call back the joyful spirit we might have lost. Being goofy and maintaining fun in a romantic partnership can strengthen bonds and help anchor a couple during hard times.

Lightening up in a world that feels angry 24/7 doesn’t mean we aren’t passionate about what matters. Cranking up music while making dinner, racing a lover back to the house, making up a silly scenario or daydreaming for a few minutes on a lunch break can’t change the world, but it can jumpstart our joy.

Marlaina Donato is an author, painter and composer. Connect at WildflowersAndWoodSmoke.com.

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